Birthday card from Dad and Mom

A few weeks back, I posted the verse from my card from David. This is the verse from the card my parents gave me, and yes, my Daddy very frequently is the one to pick out the cards.

A Daughter Is a Precious Gift

When a daughter is born, she fills your life with so much happiness-
It starts when you first hold her close with pride and tenderness.
And as she grows, your loving feelings grow and deepen, too-
You take such joy in what she says and all she learns to do.
Then through the years, the special times and sharing play a part
In all the happy memories you treasure in your heart.
Thoughts of you bring pleasant memories of you as a little girl
and feelings of pride in the woman you've become.
Your birthday is another reminder of what a wonderful daughter you are.....
how much you have always meant,
how much you always will.

Love Dad and Mom

Our cabinet drawer nightmare!

Warning - this is a long one....

My youngest brother is very handy with woodwork, furniture building and cabinetry. He has built us brand new cabinet doors for our kitchen, den and bathrooms and had planned to make the drawers as well. He did an excellent job. But as sometimes happens, life interfered and has made it very difficult for him to get into his wood shop.

So in mid-December, I contacted a local cabinet shop. The sales rep (a friend and co-worker of our neighbor) came out and measured and returned on 12/31/08 to give us the bid. We negotiated a few items, agreed to the final deal, and wrote a check for 50% of the total which the cabinet shop cashed the very same day.

In mid-January, the sales rep called me because the cabinet shop could find no record of us having made the "materials" deposit. I confirmed that I had written the check and where/when it had been deposited which I pulled from my online bank statement.

By the end of January, we still had no drawers (20 drawers, 5 fake drawer fronts and one 30X30 cabinet) and no promise of when they would be ready. I began calling the sales rep, aka Chris, and pushing to get the drawers finished. We cannot complete all of the painting in the kitchen, den, and bathrooms until we have the drawers. Finally I received a call that they had finished the drawers but there was a problem. They had not cut the drawer fronts wide enough to router the "finger pulls" that I had requested. They wanted me to either agree to only router the bottoms where if the cabinet showed, it would be on the bottom, or switch to putting hardware on them.

Now remember, we are talking 25 units for just the drawers. If we have to add hardware then we would probably also add hardware to the doors (count them 31...I think) and are you with me here....cha ching! I agreed to try the bottom cut finger pulls but argued that I had ordered drawers from a professional cabinet shop, they had measured, and the finger pulls were ordered from the very beginning. This was really NOT my problem. After a few hours, Chris called to report they would be making new fronts.

Finally last week Chris calls me to tell me they are ready. I picked them up on Thursday and knew instantly that something didn't look correct on 8 of the drawers which are all the same size. We had actually provided one of the actual drawers for this particular size which they had in the shop but they had obviously not measured it or compared to their finised product. But I agreed to bring them home and see if "they would do."

I bring them home, and David helps unload. We slide the first of the questionable 8 drawers in, and it is too narrow. Doesn't even touch the bottom cabinet support and floats in the drawer frame. So, first 8 are wrong.

Friday night we begin transferring the rail hardware from the existing drawers to the new ones. The first two for the kitchen are too wide and won't fit into the cabinet frame. Now we are 10 of the 25 that are not usable. A third one for the kitchen has a knot hole on the very front that has spider legs. They tried to fill and sand (all of these are paint grade) but it still has raised edges. Now we are to 11 of 25 that are not good.

Luckily, all of the bathroom and my vanity drawers fit...that's a total of 8. I grab the fake drawer fronts to check the size and realize one of the fronts for the kitchen has a crack in the wood grain that is at least 1/4" thick. Now we are at 12 of 25 that are not useable.

Saturday morning, Chris was supposed to be here to check out the situation and help us correct the problems. He called and said he would be a couple of hours due to an emergency at his house. Two hours later I called him. He was back home after purchasing a new washer and once it was installed, he would be headed to my house. (Could a new washer purchase have waited until after he came here?) An hour and a half later, he calls to report he can't get here until Monday. I agree to change my plans for Monday.

In the meantime, I transfer all of the stuff from the old drawers into the new ones. When I finish one drawer from the master bath (only because it is off of the master bedroom and not due to it's tiny size), and shut the drawer, the drawer front literally falls off and hits me on the top of the foot. I'm extremely frustrated at this point and that's the nice version!

I go about my business and return to my bedroom vanity a bit later to realize that another front has fallen off. So, are you with me....that's now 14 of 25 that are messed up! Almost 60% and we only wonder how long until more of the fronts take a hike!.

A home builder friend dropped by and I invited him in for his thoughts. Not good. So my plan at this point is that Chris has until noon Monday to be at my home and propose a reasonable solution. Otherwise, all of the new drawers, fake fronts and one cabinet will be making a return trip to the cabinet shop where I will request that they keep their product and issue an immediate refund. If they don't agree to that, I plan to give them until Friday noon to fix them "right!" Otherwise, this could get really ugly really soon.

Know any good cabinet shops?

I'm a Believer..,.....

I virtually never write a blog about products that I love although there are many. Have you ever tried purple "Fabuloso" as an all purpose cleaner. Diluted in warm water and used with a microfiber cloth cleans almost anything.

But this week, we may have found a life changing product.

Throughout our marriage of over 25 years, David has snored. He had severe allergies that went largely untreated as a child and he sleeps with his mouth open. Snores like a freight train although he states that he stayed awake all night one night and never did snore....ugh! I was told him that if a barking dog (a serious pet peeve of his) had kept him awake in the night as often as his snoring had awakened me, the dog would have met a fatal demise.

Over the years he has had at least 3 medical procedures in attempts to reduce his snoring. A couple of these, the doctor was able to get paid through insurance. After a while when he began snoring again, he underwent a sleep study to be sure he did not have sleep apnea. The report...."You could be the poster child for perfect sleep." Then I had a sleep study to rule out that I had sleep issues that were causing me to be super sensitive to nighttime noises.

Last year, bless his heart, he had injections in the roof of his mouth that initially made his mouth swell like crazy for a few days. The intent was that the uvula (flap in the back of the throat) would develop scar tissue and become less flexible and unable to vibrate. Now that we have determined he is the perfect sleeper, no insurance to help on this procedure, but how much is your wife's sleep worth? After a couple of weeks of misery, I noticed a decent improvement for a few months. However, over time, the snoring resumed. It was becoming problematic over the summer and by year end, I rarely made it past 3 hours in our bed before I found myself on the sofa. Frequently on weekends, he would take the sofa.

We had seen the TV advertisement for Pure Sleep. Two easy payments of $29.95 plus shipping with a 30 day money back guarantee. Our initial thought....can a mouthpiece fitted at home after boiling in a pot of water solve all snoring problems?" Probably not. So we continued to think about it but not to push the "buy now" button. But we reached the point a couple of weeks ago to say..."Why not try it?" So I pushed the button.

The package arrived last Tuesday. He followed the instructions to fit the mouthpiece and so far we have seen 100% improvement. Every night since he started using it, I have heard the alarm go off while still sleeping beside my DH.

The jury is still out on long term correction, but for now I'M A BELIEVER!

Birthday Card from my DH

I've already posted this on Facebook, so if you see me there, you can skip this post!

This is the verse from the card my fantastic husband gave me for my birthday today.

My Wife

"It's just another day," you say.
"It's no big deal," you say.
But to me, the anniversary
of the day YOU came into existence
is about the biggest deal there is.
Until you came along,
I never thought it was possible
that one single person
could so totally steal my heart away.
But that's what you've done.
One look at you, and all I want to do
is be near you, touch you, hear your voice,
and hold you so close that it's impossible
to tell where you end and I begin.
I think you're incredible,
and what I want, more than anything,
is to try to make you as happy
as you've made me - if that's possible.
In a way, I feel guilty....I mean,
here it is your birthday,
and yet I'm the one
who gets to enjoy the gift....
the gift of you and your love.
Happy Birthday.

Love you,
David

I had a very nice birthday. We went to our favorite Waco steakhouse (Diamond Back's) on Saturday night with Shaylor and Jeanne and they treated. It was great food, and awesome company. Thank you Shaylor and Jeanne. Mom made me my favorite cake - a coffee cake with broiled cocunut/pecan icing....yum. I had it for breakfast today. It's okay to do that on your birthday, right?

Then we met our long time friends, the Brandon family, for lunch in Cleburne today. Kim and Alicia made me an incredible cake that Shelby decorated beautifully with pink icing and white fondant. It was fabulous. We stayed and visited so long that David finally said..."We either need to leave, or order dinner." Then I realized it was 4:30! Unfortunately, Brandon was running fever (there is a cold bug running through the dorm) and was not able to join us.

I had a great birthday and am thankful for my great family and friends...especially my dear husband.

I think it is a God thing.....

Tonight a few of my friends are coming over for a much needed Ladies Night Out. I am planning to fix caramel apple dip for dessert and have been searching for my mini-crockpots for over 1/2 the day. For those of you that don't know me well, it absolutely drives me crazy to not be able to find something that I know I have. I can dig up receipts from 6 years ago, tell you how many pizzas we ordered for the boys 17th birthday party, owner manuals for most things we own, pictures from 15 years ago, etc.

I remember pulling my mini-crockpots out of the attic a few months ago. I have 2. I have looked all the "normal" places that I would store something that I don't use often and just can't find them. One place that we stick stuff sometimes is the heater closet. It has our furnace unit, our water heater and extra storage space. So, that's where the high chair, inside step ladders, broom, industrial size bottle of liquid bath soap, furnace filters, etc....that kind of stuff gets put.

I've looked everywhere at least twice including climbing back in the attic cubby hole where the extra kitchen wares are stored. While talking to my Mom (when I called to see if maybe by some remote chance I had loaned both of them to her) I check the heater closet one more time.

And then I see it. We have propane heat and a propane hot water heater. On top of the water heater is a vent pipe that vents the water heater thru the attic to the oustide. If the water heater is not vented correctly, then it can leak CO2 back into the house. The vent pipe is totally off the top of the water heater and the vent is open into the heater closet. This just doesn't look right. I called David at work to confirm and he instructed me on how to "temporarily" put it back in place so that he can look at it when he gets home.....tomorrow evening.

And now as I sit back and think about the day, I have to wonder if there was a purpose in why I have had to look so hard for my mini-crockpots. If I had not been searching for them, I would have never seen the vent pipe disconnected from the top of the water heater. Was it a God thing?

And no, I still haven't found my mini-crockpots but will not be at all suprised to one day find them glaring at me in one of the spots I have already searched.

Recommended but not required!

Brandon calls me last Friday morning to report that he is not sure he will be driving anywhere for the weekend. For the mom of a 19 yo, that brings all sorts of wonderful thoughts to mind.

As I attempt to discover the rationale for this recent decision, he proceeds to tell me that he had an accident in his racquetball class. At this point, it could be important to point out a few facts:

1. In December 2007, Brandon had shoulder surgery to correct a labrum tear.
2. In Feburay 2008, Brandon's surgeon released him from the shoulder surgery to go on the school ski trip.
3. Brandon went on the school ski tip and made 1/2 of one run on the first day until I received a call from the mountain side clinic.
4. We flew Brandon home and a week later, he had surgery and a one night stay for a seriously broken collarbone.
5. A few years back, we vacationed as a family with our friends in Alaska. We arrived Saturday, spend most of Sunday at church with our friends. On Monday, David separated his shoulder while playing racquetball with our friend. He spent the entire week in a sling. Our snow activities were halted, and he could not help at all with the luggage, etc getting the family home from Alaska!

At this point, I'm at least happy that he hasn't wrecked his car, etc, but still no clue as to why he won't be able to drive. And then he says........

"I took a racquetball square in the eye!"

Me: "I guess you weren't wearing eye protection?"
B: "It is recommended but not required. Out of all the possible places on my body I could take a hit, what are the odds that I would get hit in the eye?"
Me: "Well, now you know." (Great Mom response, huh?)

This is what he looked like:




OUCH! As it turns out, he was okay to drive over the weekend, but he has had to answer a few questions!

Suppose he has learned a lesson and will be buying some goggles.....I suspect NOT!

I'm It....from my friend Jamie's page

Actually, I wasn't tagged, I saw this over on Jamie's blog when I was reading her post for Sunday.

Here goes...What was I doing 10 years ago? Seriously? I'm not sure if I remember what I was doing 10 minutes ago.....10 years ago:

Brandon and Zachary were 9. David was still attending Texas Wesleyan full time and being stay at home Dad to the boys. I was working for Texas Pacific Group in Fort Worth as controller of their Asian, Latin America and other offshore investment funds. We lived in Hurst and were anxiously awaiting the arrival of our niece. She was born in May 1999. The boys were playing soccer and we were planning a family vacation to Trail West in Buena Vista, Colorado...the best young family vacation ever.

5 things on my to-do list for today?

1)workout with Marci
2) make a diligent effort to begin excercising a minimum of 1000 calories per day
3) make a diligent effort to accurately log my food intake
4) mail a package
5) give Angel her heartworm pill


5 snacks I enjoy:

1) pb & j foldover
2) cookies
3) bananas
4) popcorn - real, not microwave
5) Mozzarella cheese sticks

5 things I would do if I were a billionaire:(this is in no particular order)

1) Donate at least 10% to charity
2) Pay off all 3 guys cars and buy a new one for me.
3) Build cabins at the Ranch and a vacation location.
4) Fully fund the guys college.
5) Buy a new home.


5 bad habits:

1) Not exercising enough
2) eating (eating too much, of course, I mean...we have to eat) (I like that Rachel!)
3) not getting enough sleep
4) not callling my brothers often enough
5) overcommitting myself


5 places I've lived:

1) Haltom City, Texas
2) Hurst, Texas
3) Fort Worth, Texas
4) Burleson, Texas
5) Whitney, Texas

5 jobs I've had:

1) Wife and mom - best and most rewarding, for SURE!!
2) Cloth World
3) Checker/Cashier - Winn Dixie and Tom Thumb
4) Joint Billing Intern - Southland Royalty
5) Controller/CFO - private equity firms



Okay, that's a little about me. Forgive me but I'm not going to tag anyone. If you want to play along, feel free...and post a comment so others can see what you wrote! Please.